When you are in a long-term relationship or marriage it’s ok to be submissive! I submit to my man without a problem because I trust him. You first need to trust who you are with in order to be open to being submissive. I trust that he will make the final decision on most things and it will be in both of our best interest.
The other problem with women is that they take being submissive the wrong way. This doesn’t mean you don’t have a right to an opinion or you must agree with every little thing your man say or does. You just need to know your place as a woman and be quiet sometimes.Never disagree with your man in front of outsiders. If his male friends or family is over to the house and his ask you to bring them drinks… just do it. Later, you can tell him that you thought it was not right for him to insist you do it because so & so but there is a time and a place for everything. I have learned to pick and choose my battles.
Now if your man is making poor decisions and it’s a problem. It’s time to talk about this in a private setting and in a manner where you are not tearing him down. Then, if the problem still exist then you might need to re-evaluate your relationship and the mate you chose. But at the end of the day I do believe that the Man should be the Leader of the household. So choose your Leader carefully.
**I still think some women spend more time trying to pick the perfect banana at the grocery store than we do picking the man in our lives**