If we accept being lied to, cheated on, belittled and we stay, we have accepted that treatment and our significant other will continue to treat us a certain way, because we didn’t put our foot down and say “OK WAIT…I’M NOT DEALING WITH THAT!”
Say for example you’re engaged to be married for the 4thtime to the same man. You know he has cheated and you stayed with him. Can you really be angry when he calls off the wedding yet again? Can you really be mad when he continues to act like a damn fool? HELL TO THE NO. And can you really be mad that he thinks cheating should be “legalized”?
Where am I getting all this from? Well, I am referring to The Game (a rapper) and his Fiance.
Earlier this week The Game sat down with Power 105.1′s Breakfast Club not only to promote his VH1 Reality show, but to voice his opinion about cheating. Here’s what he had to say about “legalizing” cheating [in marriage]:
It would make it easier for women. The truth is every man cheats. Fat men, skinny men, basketball player, guy who can’t play, nerds, smart guy, it doesn’t matter. A woman is better off assuming exactly what I said. You’ll be better off that way.
*blank stare* O_O
First, he sounds like an idiot and any woman who actually takes him seriously needs her head examined. And secondly, the fact that his fiance
to the 4th power is still with him and still gets angry by his actions, is just a damn shame.
I don’t know about you, but I WOULD NOT accept cheating in my relationship nor do I agree that ALL MEN CHEAT. Maybe immature, egotistical men cheat, but to say ALL MEN cheat is like saying Nicki Minaj’s ass is real…it aint true! If engagement #1 doesn’t work out ummmmm throw deuces and move on! Why put yourself through the BS again and again when you know good and well they wont change? It kills me when people think someone will change for them because they stick around, that ain’t how it works. People change because THEY want to. I really want people, especially women, TO WAKE THE HELL UP and understand their WORTH. We all deserve to be in a happy, loving, committed relationship. And to settle for anything less is straight BS!
But I need The GAME to have a seat. 8 years, 4 proposals?!
Oh..here’s the trailer if you’re interested: