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Masturbation Is Ok!!!

There’s a myth that if you’re giving a woman the ‘good tings’ (colloquial slang for REALLY pleasing intercourse) then she will have no need or desire to masturbate. Wrong.

See – quick and painless, like pulling off a beeswax strip from your labia is how such news should be given. Men, take note:

The act of masturbation is not a substitute for lack of sex, whether in quality or quantity. It should be an exploration of oneself. The more a woman knows her body and what it likes the MORE THINGS she will be willing to try to reach those heights (ie with YOU). A woman who is comfortable and confident with her orgasm will be freer in mind and ultimately with her partner in bed.

You want to know how to get her to act out that scene from the DVD with you? Encourage her exploration… Most women would love to be confident enough to take control in sex, and most men would revel in the experience of being ‘seen’ to by a woman, but fear of doing it wrong stands in the way.

No need to feel inadequate when she licks her fore and middle fingers before soaking her clitoris in her own saliva. If you’re lucky enough to be present when she is doing this, my friend get ready for the fuck of your life when she is done. Kick back and suck on a titty if you’re feeling left out but god whatever you do don’t question what she is doing!

If you’re relationship with her exploration
is still in the early stages, and the only thing you actually witness first hand is the changing of sheets or her wrinkled finger tips fret not. These are VERY good signs. If your woman is able to make herself climax to the point of wrinkled fingertips she’s learnt to embrace her orgasm (over and over and over again…)

If you’re not following, let me paint you a picture. When you were little, playing in the bath pretending to be a superhero fighting baddies underwater? Your mum would be shouting at your for an hour telling you to get out and when you finally did obey all of your toes and fingers would be wrinkled up like prunes. Awwww fond memories right? Now swap bath for bed and batman figure for 8ins rubber vibrator and instead of pretending to be a superhero she is imagining you sucking on her pussy so good that sweet warm juices are just flowing all over her fingers. How long do you reckon a pussy would have to be played with for your fingers wrinkle up?


Wham. Bam. Thank you ma’am. Moral of my story? Share the experience, don’t be in a made up competition with your partner. It’s like your dick being jealous when your tongue is in between her thighs. We’re all on the same team. I promise.

Embrace the O girls, you’ll live longer!

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Party Time!!








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Best Music Videos

Aren’t we all a fan of music and everything it brings to us, well i sure am, and along with music we got these videos, lovely videos that correlate with the words of a song. Although sometimes we can love a song and hate the video to it we can never forget those amazing videos that leave us surprised and even more in love with our favorite songs. I searched up all of my favorite best produced music videos, and here i am to share with you! i hope you all enjoy, and tell me which music video would you add to this list? and which music video to you love from this list?

Beyonce- Why don’t you love me?

This music VIDEO was directed by Melina Matsoukas. The was filmed in Los Angeles on Mount Olympus.

I love the 60′s appearance of this video, Beyonce’s housewife role mixed with a little bit of vintage bombshell is incomparable to any other music video she has made. She doesn’t let me down with the productions of her music video but this ones top notch, and while watching the video i always question myself why doesn’t he love her!!!!!


Rihanna- We found love 

The music video for “We Found Love” was shot in County Down, Northern Ireland and the New Lodge area of North Belfast. The video was also directed by Melina Matsoukas, she must be awesome!

The sick in love concept this video shows us is the most captivating part of it all. The way Rihanna and her ‘lover’ portray their love in this video makes me almost feel as if I’m her, feeling every bit of emotion, terror, love, confusion, obsession, drug, illusion etc. I say Rihanna gives us a sneak peak of her past relationship with ex boyfriend Chris Brown in this video. what do you think? i am hopelessly in love with the video.

Katy perry- The one that got away

The Video was shot in Calabasas a city in Los Angeles. The video was directed by Floria Sigismondi.

One of the saddest video i have ever watched, yet so fascinating. In this video Katy’s older self is sad with her unfulfilled current love while reminiscing back to her younger happy love. The words of this song combine so profoundly with the video and it is why this video is one of my choices. Haven’t we all had the one that got away?


Jennifer Lopez- I’m gonna be alright

Directed by Dave Meyers and filmed in the Bronx, New York City, where Jennifer Lopez lived her younger years before becoming a star.

If you are a proud new yorker you would also fall in love with this video, or maybe already are. I am from new york, and from the Bronx so this video really caught all of my attention. JLO making a video in the vicinity of her childhood is quite awesome. As said in Wikipedia “It shows a hot summer day in New York through scenes of Lopez doing the laundry, sunbathing, listening to music in a record shop and playing baseball on the streets”, a typical Bronx, new york thing huh?



Fun- We are young

The music video, directed by Marc Klasfeld, was filmed at David Sukonick Concert Hall in Los Angeles.

The name of the group band says more of the video than the actual title to me. Its all about fun! in this video and that’s one of the reasons why i chose it. Parts of the video are shot in slow motion as the band sings and a Riot happens all around them, i found it pretty cool. Flour, confetti, streamers and a disco ball are all part of a FUN video.



Lana del rey- Ride 

Director-Anthony Mandler

The words that Lana expresses at the beginning of the song was mostly why i chose this particular video, however the video fascinates me too. The scenery of the video and Lanas beautiful face captivated me. Take a joy ride as you watch.



Jay-z & Kanye- Otis 

The music video was directed by Spike Jonze and was filmed in Los Angeles.

Not a lot happens in this video but a maybach 57 is involded and jay and kanye and fireworks and a saw and fire and fistpumps and girls… and the slow motion in it does it all. This dynamic duo always wins. love this video!


Frank Ocean- Novacane 

Director Nabil Elderkin.

I loved this video as soon as i watched it because it describes the title so well, the whole meaning of this video is to show how it is to feel numb and perhaps drugged?, frank appears to be taking some type of drug while he hallucinates. We also see things in slow motion probably the way frank is feeling, which also relates to the numbness of novacane.



Lady gaga- Eh, eh (nothing else i can say) 

Directed by Joseph Kahn, in Los Angeles.

A 1950′s inspired video that i truly fell in love with. Gaga says “I wanted to show a different side of myself — perhaps a more domestic girly side. And I wanted to create beautiful, stunning ’50s futuristic fashion imagery that would burn holes in everyone’s brains.” Well theirs holes in my brains already.



Beyonce- Me myself and I 

Johan Renck directed this video.

Beyonce’s me myself and I video its all reversed! notice as you watch the video how everything goes, its the reason why i chose it! However, i just found another version of the video which is the non reverse one, which was the first one beyonce shot, apparently beyonce wasn’t all so content about it and re-did it almost entirely!. What beyonce said about this song/video – “The video and actually the song I wrote it for the ladies because I know sometimes we go through relationships and they don’t work out and we blame the guy or we blame the other girl or we blame ourselves. And we have this inner voice that kind of leads us in the right direction. We can always depend on ourself and the song ‘Me, myself and I’ and I wanted the video to reflect that. I was trying to think of something different, something fresh and new visually to do.” You can find that other one at vimeo.com.


Katy Perry- Teenage dream 

Teenage love is in the air in this video, i can feel it as i watch it. Absolutely love it.


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Isn’t this the truth. I think we all have done some things, ruin some relationships that we wished like hell we hadn’t! Then they are a few that we are still holding on to that we need to set a torch to the them! **giggles** Yet most of us are in current relationships and we just don’t know what the hell to do. I hear people say I was at a crossroad. Well I just found out what that mean. When I came to face reality, when I was just slapped with some old dangling feelings, I almost fell backwards. I almost felt sorry for my past and gave up my future. It took a day of sadness a day of hardcore thinking to make me realize there is no point in going backwards. If a person wrong you once without remorse and never admit they wronged you they will damn sure do it again! Welp! If my words are unclear here it’s because I am talking from my head (and that just should say enuff, shit I’m crazy) LOL!
Seriously though don’t keep holding on to things that hold no value or can not add value in your life. Sometimes you have to continue to love people from a distance because they don’t mean you any good. People will look to you just because they need you and when they get up on their feet they will give you their ass to kiss. This applies to family, friends, grown children and lovers. Live your life to your benefit. And my all time favorite motto:
One should never have to compromise their own happiness for someone else~
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If you want me, let me know. If you love me, show it. If you want to be with me, be with me. I’m not about to lay down and wait for you to make up your mind. I have a life to live and I wont stop it just because you might be interested. You can tell me you are sure all you like but unless you actually produce some action and show some conviction you wont be in the running for my attention. I have spent enough time waiting for men to fulfil their empty promises.

If your not in a situation to be mine- change it. If your not here-what are you going to do to change it? I’m not looking for words, for promises or for reassurance. I’m looking for a man, a partner something real. Change is scary and hard but if you mean what you say then come for me. No excuses. Excuses show weakness. If you want me you will make it happy.

Being with me wont be easy, there will be fights and disagreements. I will challenge your motivations and convictions and push you to always be more than you are. I will be difficult and hard to live with. I will get moody and I will never be perfect. But if you are good to me, if you promise to love me and not to change me then I can promise you this:

I will not leave you or lie to you. I will not give up on you or let you down.I WILL love you. Completely and without falter. I will look after you when you are sick, dance with you when you are well and care for you always. You would be my only priority, my life designed with us at its centre. I will be your rock and you will be mine. I will work with you, not against you. I will do my best to make you happy and keep you safe.

I wish it was more.

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2 Years and Counting!

My birthday weekend was extremely relaxing! Decided to go away for 3 days with the love of my life. We’ve been together for almost 3 years but it didn’t start then. I knew from the moment I met him almost 7 years ago in high school that he was the one! But to say the least I was scared to make a commitment at the age of 17 and let him go. But I guess the saying

If you love someone let them go, if they come back to you it’s meant to be

is really true in my case! He came back and swept me off my feet. I truly don’t know where I would be without him. He’s more than just my


he’s my best friend and the man I want to grow old with! I love him more and more everyday! He’s broughten so much life, love and laughter back into my life! He’s the reason I smile everyday!









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Fourth of July!

Sorry it’s a little late. I’ve been crazy busy! Fourth of July was truly amazing! Had an amazing Fourth with my boyfriend and friends!


Me and the sexy ass hubby Reem!


The hubby and I and his good friend! My hubby looks so happy in this picture, must be because he has two sexy ladies on his side!

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